My boyfriend got married behind my back – but I still stayed with him

I do not have the best record in the world with men; I’ll be the first to admit it.

After years of experience, I have improved to recognize red flags. Above all, it is true. End the days that I ignore the signs of abuse on the horizon, fortunately.

Apparently, that wasn’t the case with infidelity.

Nobody likes to be deceived, I guess. Unless you’re in a cuckold relationship, you’re unlikely to wake up in the morning thinking, “I hope my partner will surprise me today with someone else.”

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By the same standard, I don’t believe most people actively desire to be the person who sneaks around with married or engaged people. I’m sure there are exceptions to this, given how many people actively engage in infidelity. But for me, it was never my thing.

I have been deceived in the past; I never wanted to be the other woman.

When W and I first met, I had been separated from my husband for six months. I was looking for a long term relationship, but not in a hurry for that to happen. W responded to an ad I placed on Craigslist, checking all the boxes.

It took us a little while to meet in person, and I was okay with that. We spent that time getting to know each other better, rather than jumping straight into bed. Conversations continued into the night and early morning, talking about everything and nothing.

Everything seemed so perfect.


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